Conversations That Break the Silence
Faith-filled, shame-free talks that spark honesty, healing, and deeper connection.
When Your Community Is Ready for Real Talk
You know your church, conference, or community longs for deeper, healthier conversations about sex, intimacy, and relationships - but no one’s quite sure how to start. The discomfort is real. So is the silence.
You need a voice that’s grounded in Scripture but not afraid of reality. Someone who can speak with clarity and compassion. Who can name what’s often left unsaid - and do it in a way that opens hearts instead of shutting people down.
These conversations are for communities, leaders, and churches ready to replace shame with wisdom, fear with understanding, and silence with courage.
Speaking on "Sexual Intimacy in Marriage" at Hillsong Marriage Matters Night 2018
What These Talks Open The Door To
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Honest conversations about sex, desire, and intimacy - in a faith-safe way
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Equipping people with biblical frameworks and practical tools
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Reframing intimacy as part of God’s good design, not something taboo
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Creating a shared language for connection, healing, and growth
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Breaking silence without compromising truth
These aren’t abstract lectures or awkward analogies. These are real, relatable, and empowering conversations.
Speaking on "Thank God for Sex" Masterclass at Hillsong Conference 2018
Renee does a beautiful job of speaking about a sensitive and often difficult topic. She shares great, biblical knowledge and advice with really helpful practical activities that have been really valuable for our marriage.
Attendee, Lifesource Church, NSW
Because One Conversation Can Change Everything
When we stop avoiding the hard topics, we create space for healing.
When we speak truth with grace, fear and shame lose their grip and hearts open.
My talks make space for people to reflect, relate, and respond - as individuals and as a community.
Conversations are how we spark cultural change.
How we build brave spaces.
How we plant seeds that grow into deeper healing and lasting connection.
Whether it's a marriage retreat, women's night, leadership training, or young adults event, these aren’t just talks. They’re entry points into deeper intimacy, stronger relationships and Christ-centered living.
Ready to bring these conversations to your community?
Renee gave a great introduction to building intimacy from a Biblical point of view. The course was interactive and thought-provoking, helping my husband and I to reflect on areas where we could improve in our marriage. Renee was a warm and clear presenter who really knew her stuff. She presented the course in a relaxed but open manner so that all the couples were able to enjoy the course at ease despite some of the potentially awkward topics covered.
Linda, Attendee, NSW
Inspiring a new story for intimacy
Speaking Topics
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Youth: Building Integrity and Worth in a Sexualised World
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Young Adults: Reframing Sex, Intimacy and Dating through a Biblical Lens
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Engaged Couples: Foundations for Healthy Sexual Intimacy in Marriage
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Married Couples: Growing Intimacy That Lasts
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Married Women: Embracing Female Sexuality with Confidence and Faith
Talks can be tailored to fit youth, young adult, women’s, marriage or leadership audiences.
Want to explore what’s possible? Request my Speaker Overview PDF.
2012 – 2023: Hillsong College lectures on sex, relationships, and marriage
2018: Marriage Matters, Hillsong
2018: Thank God for Sex Masterclass, Hillsong Conference
2019: Keynote and Masterclass at Lifewell Conference, Adelaide
2019: Young Adults Encounter Night, Hillsong City
2020: Marriage Conference, Hillsong Amsterdam
2020: Pre-marriage Workshops and Marriage Night, Hillsong New York
2021: Relationships Conference, Hillsong France
2021: Marriage Night, Hillsong Newcastle, Hillsong Northern Beaches, Hillsong Perth, Hillsong Northshore
2022: Body Image, Gender Stereotypes, Sexualisation of Culture, Pacific Hills Christian School
2022: RCC Yes, Guest Speaker
2023: God's design for sex, Sex and the Brain, Body Image, Gender Stereotypes, Sexualisation of Culture, Pacific Hills Christian School
2023: Sexual Intimacy in Marriage & Healthy Christian Dating, Hillsong Bali
2023: Light Marriage Conference, Light London, Guest Speaker
2024: Keynote and Masterclass, Young Adults Conference, Hillsong Brisbane
2024: Intimacy in Relationships, Beautiful Gate Church Sydney
Conference Presentations
Podcasts
Renee enjoys speaking on podcasts on healthy sexual intimacy.
Renee is featured on the following podcasts:
STRONGER | with Jeremiah Jacob Podcast ‘SEX & THE MIND #1 | Porn and mental health’
STRONGER | with Jeremiah Jacob Podcast ‘SEX & THE MIND #2 | Porn and relationships’