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Why Christian Women Don’t Feel Sexually Confident in Marriage (And What Actually Helps)
Why many Christian women struggle with sexual confidence in marriage and how to build intimacy without shame, pressure, or performance.
Apr 163 min read


Painful Sex After Marriage? Understanding Vaginismus
Painful sex after marriage is more common than many Christian women realise. If intercourse feels impossible or like “hitting a wall,” you may be experiencing vaginismus. In this compassionate guide, we explore what vaginismus is, why it happens, and how couples can move toward healing, safety, and enjoyable intimacy, without shame or pressure.
Feb 205 min read


We Called It ‘It’: Why Talking About Sex (Even Before Marriage) Matters More Than You Think
Learn how to talk about sex — before or after marriage — with honesty, faith, and wisdom. Christian tips for communication, intimacy, and healthy boundaries.
Nov 6, 20253 min read


How Do You Be Vulnerable With People When You’ve Been Hurt Before?
Learn how to be vulnerable again after being hurt, rebuild trust, choose safe people, and open up one brave step at a time.
Oct 11, 20252 min read


She Was the Only Virgin in the Room… and They Laughed at Her
Culture mocks waiting for marriage, but honouring God with your body brings freedom. Learn why, and how, to build God-honouring intimacy in dating.
Oct 1, 20254 min read


Why I Created The Intimacy Reboot
Most couples don’t need more tips, they need tools that actually help them feel connected again. This post shares the heart behind The Intimacy Reboot and why emotional safety, communication, and presence matter more than just scheduling date nights or waiting for a crisis.
Sep 8, 20254 min read


Why Scheduling Sex Isn’t the Shortcut to Intimacy
Scheduling sex might seem like the solution for busy couples but real intimacy isn’t built on a calendar. In this post, we explore why presence matters more than performance, and how small, intentional moments of connection can reignite emotional and physical intimacy in your marriage.
Aug 17, 20254 min read


When You're Mentally Exhausted and Sex Feels Like Work
Feeling too tired for sex but don’t want to feel disconnected from your husband? This empowering blog helps Christian wives move from pressure to presence and build real intimacy without pushing through exhaustion.
Jun 20, 20253 min read


3 Myths About Female Sexuality in Christian Marriage
Talking about sex as a Christian wife can feel complicated. Maybe you’ve wondered, "Is it okay for a godly woman to enjoy sex?" or "Why do I feel guilty for wanting more—or less—intimacy?" You’re not alone.
Growing up in a Christian community, I didn’t have conversations about sex, dating, or relationships. It wasn’t something openly discussed, and I went into marriage feeling awkward, unprepared, and unsure of how to express my needs. It took years to unlearn myths and repl
May 16, 20254 min read


Desire Isn’t Dirty: Embracing Your Sexuality and Finding Your Voice as a Christian Wife
Discover how to embrace your God-given desire as a Christian wife and learn practical tips to communicate your needs without guilt or shame.
May 15, 20254 min read


Intimacy in relationships is not the same as sex
The battle with 21st century culture on relationships and how we can address it.
Jul 13, 20244 min read


How to Be a Godly Friend & Have Relationships that Flourish
In every relationship, whether dating or married, friendship is the underlying pillar. Being a good friend isn’t a temporary role—it's a...
Jun 13, 20245 min read


Is Taking It Slow the Key to Successful Christian Dating?
In the dating world, when we start connecting with someone and discovering qualities we admire, it’s natural to feel a strong attraction and a desire to become physically close quickly. Despite these intense feelings, it's crucial to remember that building an authentic relationship requires time—it's not a process to rush. Often, we're tempted to present only our best sides and say what we think the other person wants to hear. However, taking it slow—resisting the urge to rus
May 17, 20243 min read


Navigating the Dating World as a Christian: Finding Your Match in Faith
Do you love Jesus and want to find a partner who shares your commitment to God and building the church? Navigating the dating world can feel daunting, especially when your faith is a non-negotiable aspect of your life. But fear not, because you're not alone in this journey. Let's explore some strategies to help you find someone who aligns with your values and vision for the future. 1. Start with Strong Convictions: Your faith in Jesus is the cornerstone of your life, and it
May 5, 20243 min read


Navigating Grace: A Fresh Start for Dating Couples
Navigating sexual desire while dating. What do we do now if we crossed our boundaries?
Jan 23, 20243 min read


What the Mainstream Conversation About Sex Has Forgotten
Just pleasure? Just an act? Just a bodily response? Sex. Like eating an ice-cream, or enjoying a glass of red wine, this is what it feels...
Feb 14, 20233 min read


Sexual Dysfunction and the Importance of Support
We’re created for it, we crave it and we covet other couples who have it. What is it? Intimacy. The key ingredient for a flourishing,...
Feb 14, 20233 min read


How Other-Centered Sex Can Transform Your Lovemaking
It sounds counter-intuitive, but sex is best when it’s not about us. Of course, that’s only true when it’s a two-way street. It’s about...
Feb 14, 20232 min read


Patience and the Bedroom
Patience isn’t a 'sexy' word. Pick up the remote, start watching your favourite Netflix show and you’ll find sex portrayed as the exact...
Feb 14, 20234 min read


How ‘Fun’ Can Transform Your Sex Life
The thing about fun is, it’s hard to do alone. This is where relationships come in: they’re life-giving! They’re meant to bring energy,...
Feb 14, 20232 min read
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