Is This You?
Do you feel pressure to enjoy sex - but instead, it often ends in confusion, frustration or even tears?
Do you find sex painful, emotionally triggering, or simply not working the way you thought it would?
Are you struggling to reconnect after having babies - or feel like intimacy has become awkward, distant, or stressful?
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If you’ve ever thought:
“Why is this so hard?”
“Shouldn’t we have figured this out by now?”
“Is it just me?”
You’re not alone.
Maybe you’re here because:
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You are having trouble having intercourse (sex is too painful or you struggle to maintain an erection)?
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Your desire doesn’t match your partner’s, and it’s creating tension and conflict.
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You’ve tried to communicate, but the conversations feel tense, misunderstood, or shut down.
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You’re preparing for marriage and want to start with honesty, education, and shared understanding about sex.
Whether you're married, engaged, or navigating things on your own - counselling is a space for you.
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​​This is for individuals and couples (in Australia) who want personalised support in navigating the complexities of sex, intimacy, and relationships - through a Christian, professional, and compassionate lens.
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Feeling disconnected or emotionally shut down in your relationship
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Navigating mismatched desire or low libido
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Pain during sex , performance anxiety or sexual avoidance
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Shame, guilt, fear or discomfort around your sexual story
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Difficulty expressing your needs or shifting limiting beliefs and mindsets
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Growing in emotional safety, trust and communication
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Strengthening conflict resolution and relational skills that foster connection
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Pre-marriage preparation for sexual intimacy and setting healthy expectations​
Sex and intimacy can be difficult to talk about - especially in Christian spaces.
That's why so many couples stay silent, hoping things will eventually fix themselves.
But time doesn’t heal what stays hidden. What you avoid tends to grow, not disappear.
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​Counselling offers a safe, confidential space to explore what feels confusing, stuck, or hard to say out loud.
A place to slow down, untangle what's weighing on you, and make sense of what's really going on, with a trained counsellor who meets you with care, clarity, and compassion.
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​For couples, real change happens when both partners are willing to reflect, grow, and take responsibility for the part they play in the dynamic - to move forward together.
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​And while counselling does not offer a magic wand fix, it does offer real hope.
Whether you need just a few sessions to gain clarity, or a longer journey to work through deeper layers, this space is for people who are ready to reflect, be curious, and do the work of growth and change.
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​Counselling offers support, insight, practical tools and a personalised path forward - one honest step at a time.
What Counseling Helps With
Types of Counseling I Offer
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Individual Counseling: Explore your personal story, body, beliefs, and emotions around intimacy.
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Couples Counseling: Address challenges in communication, desire, emotional safety, and sexual connection.
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Pre-Marriage Sexual Education & Support: For engaged or newlywed couples wanting to prepare for God-honouring, joyful sexual connection in marriage.
All sessions are online and available to clients in Australia.
When You Need More Than Information
Some things can’t be worked through alone - or through a course.
They need to be witnessed. Held. Spoken out loud in the presence of someone trained to help you untangle them.
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​Counseling is for the deeper personalised work.
Not just learning - but healing. Not just tools - but transformation.
This is the space where your patterns get explored, your story gets honoured, and your questions don’t get rushed.
You’re not here to consume more content. You’re here to be met, seen, and supported - with a professional counsellor who’s fully present with you in real time.
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​If you're stuck, overwhelmed, or carrying something heavy, this is your space to pause, unpack, and begin again.